Wine is optional. Sisterhood is not.

Welcome to the club you never thought you’d be in, with the best friends you never knew you needed.

Your raw, messy, beautiful truth is welcome here.

Through a variety of social, educational, and emotional resources, my
goal is to help women redefine widowhood and embrace the bold, beautiful truth of their next chapter.

Time to toast to the woman you’re becoming next.

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Your next adventure starts here.

While our widow journey will always stay with us, laughing through tears, clinking glasses through heartbreak, and finding light in the darkest of places will help you to boldly create the next, beautiful chapter of your life.

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This isn’t about grief support.

Grief has its place, and it’s vital to the process. However, the heartbeat of my work intersects where widows want to transition from surviving — to thriving. Thriving is about bold reinvention, deep laughter, and rising through sisterhood.

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Rise, rebuild, and live big again.

Widowhood does not have to be dark and depressing. When you’re ready, we honor the past by boldly stepping into what’s next. We’re not here to just get through it. We’re here to rise, rebuild, and live big again with unapologetic pride and purpose.

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Join Widows Who Wine™ →

Your people are here. This community is ready to welcome you, connect with you, and help you feel at home.

Live in these communities? Join our private Facebook groups: Roswell, GA. | Louisville, KY (coming soon)

The Widows Who Wine™ community aims to provide a supportive space for widow groups, facilitating the creation of events and opportunities for women to connect.

From Widows Who Travel adventures, to Widows Who Read book gatherings, to Widows Who Serve service projects and Widows Who Dine dinner experiences, we all help to make these moments meaningful. Whether you love hosting, organizing, reading, traveling, or simply showing up with a good sense of humor, there’s a place for you here..

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Start a Chapter →

You’ve lived this. Are you ready to turn your pain into purpose in your local community?

We are some of the strongest women on the planet, and many widows are ready to turn that strength into impact. When you start a chapter, you’ll use your lived experience to create community, confidence, and connection for fellow widows in your city.

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The Financial Aftermath →

My book, ”Where’s The Key To The Safe?” is an empathetic, action-driven guide to financial peace of mind.

The death of a loved one is devastating, but the financial aftermath shouldn’t make it worse.

Yet, too many families find themselves overwhelmed by probate, missing paperwork, and financial confusion when a loved one passes. Here’s how to take the reins of your financial future and security.

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Dating Again: The Sh*t No One Tells Widows. →

If you’re ready for the messy, hilarious, wildly human side of dating after loss, subscribe to my Substack.

This is where we talk about the dates, the dry spells, widow fire, and everything in between openly. No pearl-clutching. No apology. If you’re ready to laugh, flirt, and maybe even blush, welcome in. It’s honest. It’s cringe. It’s dating after loss.

Subscribe and buckle up.

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Listen to the Lost Love Stories Podcast→

The Lost Love Stories is a sacred space I host for the real and remarkable stories of all kinds of love, especially the ones we don’t often tell.

Watch Live on YouTube.

Here, we honor the beauty and complexity of relationships, not just through the lens of romance, but in all its forms: from spouses and friends to siblings and children.

Each episode captures the full spectrum of love, from its tenderness, trials, and even annoyances, while giving voice to the truths that are often left unsaid after loss.

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Guest Podcasts with Widow Based Resources →

There really is a village for us. These hosts have welcomed me onto their podcasts and created space for thoughtful, compassionate, and honest conversation.

Collected here, these conversations are shared as resources for widows, offering perspective, language, and encouragement as you move forward in your own way.

Different voices with different platforms, united by a willingness to hold space for real, human experiences.

  • Pam's warmth, leadership, and gift for bringing people together created a space where laughter, tears, and healing could all coexist. This incredible group has reminded me that joy can return, friendships can grow from shared loss, and that we are never truly alone in this journey.

    Laurie

  • Rather than being a group about grief, this is a group about GROWTH. There are many places for us to face our grief, but this group is so much more than that. This is so much more than socializing periodically. The support of the group allows us to make lifelong decisions. Our lives are moving forward with more joy than we imagined.

    Katherine H.

  • There is no doubt in my mind Pam saved my life, brought me into a new life, gave me back the me I used to be!! Pam brings a strong, smart sense of what it means to find the joy in our widowhood., in whatever way best works for each of us.

    Lara R.

  • Meeting Pam and joining her amazing group Widows Who Wine have both been such a blessing to me. Getting to know so many wonderful women, developing friendships and making memories. All of which would not have happened if it weren’t for Pam’s vision. I’m so grateful and honored to call her my friend.

    Sue

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Widows out and about!

Check out some of our latests adventures. This is what redefining widowhood looks like.

Join our next event!

Meetups, trips, wine nights, book clubs, and everything in between.

See what we have coming up and save your spot, grab a friend, or come solo. There’s always a place for you.